Nov 27, 2005

If you really love her must you tell her or is it enough that she sees it in your actions?

I believe the answer depends on your definition of love. Is it a sudden, or not so sudden, strong physical attraction or is it affection based on admiration, common interests, benevolence as well as physical attraction. The kind you would like your parents to have (unless you're too young to realize your parents could be together because for these factors). This answer is based on the experiences of a 43 year marriage that started at age 19 ( the early start doesn't necessarily mean long term is not a possibility if the basis is correct. The short form answer is, if it really is love you should want to tell her and have actions that show you really care for her and not just physically.

a women likes to her it so tell her as much as you can and also show her being kind and tender does not make you a softy sometime i think we both sexes dont say it enough we wait until its ti late and try to make it up it dont work that way tell her and show her

But

What exactly are these actions that are suppose to send the message of love? Men and women are different in how they take things. For example, if she cleans your apartment for you do you think she loves you or do you need to hear her say it? Well, usually for women that is a "love action", but I don't think you take it that way, you probaly take it as " she's trying to change me". It's really simple, yes, yes, and yes, she needs you to say it!

so ...

i think u have made your own conclusion

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